Love in threes: “We were in love, but we had no role models”

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There are three of them, they love each other, sometimes they leave each other, but mostly it happened by accident. For “Libé” people talk about everyday life outside the constraints of monogamy. In our second episode, Laurie (1), 32 years old, a civil servant in Paris, got separated from a group with a man and a woman.

On television or on social networks, in France or abroad, triplets are increasingly visible. But outside of media cases, this polyamorous form of marriage remains in the minority and struggles to be recognized. Groups recount their everyday love lives Libé.

“We separated in early 2022 after being together for four and a half years, including two years of living together as a threesome. The breakup was easy and very gradual. The other girl and I realized that we were falling more and more in love, we broke up with our boyfriend and we both left. Classic. It also followed the discovery of our bisexuality or lesbianism. And then we broke up and I’m in a relationship with a girl again.

“However, I have very positive memories of this tripartite relationship. I was with that guy for a year and a half. I dated girls outside of my relationship. We also attended together. And then we met that girl. I was in love, he got along well with her and we started getting closer without considering ourselves a couple. We saw each other more and more regularly until it became more present in our lives. We talk about it

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