Testimony
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There are three of them, they love each other, sometimes they broke up, but mostly it happened to them by accident. For “Libé” people talk about everyday life outside the constraints of monogamy. In our first episode, Jean-Sébastien, 37 years old, an engineer in a group of ten years with two men in Paris.
On television or on social networks, in France or abroad, triplets are increasingly visible. But outside of media cases, this polyamorous form of marriage remains in the minority and struggles to be recognized. Groups recount their everyday love lives Released.
“Being in a group has many advantages. The three of us live in the same apartment so we really keep costs down. We also share household chores and there is a real dynamic between the trio: no routine can be established, we have topics that we connect with the other two, it multiplies the topics of conversation, there is much less tension on a daily basis and there is always a third party to resolve conflicts. It’s a model that I find very healthy when you don’t have children and, above all, much more comfortable.
“The most complex thing is managing the agenda. When you go on vacation, you have to get an extra room because sleeping three people is often grumpy. We think that’s a savings! So we pay for an apartment or two rooms. And the same applies to insurance contracts that do not want to take into account a third party. We also saw the notary: in the event of the death of one of the partners there is no protection for